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Welcome! Need some sound advice, or just someone to talk to? Ask Sista! She will dig deep into her pocket of wisdom and lay it on the line for you. Sista will neva advise you to do something she hasn’t already done herself, but then again…she just might. “Dear Sista” serves as the Dear Abby column for La’ie and “all around da world sprat” (inside joke…see Sosina Feinga for details). So if you need to clear your mind...make no delay…talk to Sista today

Note: For confidentiality purposes we suggest you use a fictitious name; word or phrase to identify yourself and you will be addressed accordingly.


Q. Dear Sista, I'm in big trouble and I don't know where to begin. I am 17 yrs. old and six months pregnant. My parents no nothing about it, neither do my friends at school or at church. I have always been one to wear baggy clothes, I'm not showing that much so no one suspects anything. My boyfriend (now ex because we broke up) wanted me to have an abortion but I refused because I am pro life. I am real scared and don't know what to do. If my parents found out they would be so angry with me. - Stranded
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Q. Dear Sista, My brother and sister-in-law and have been married for almost 30 years. They seemed to have a happy marriage all these years, raised good children, have been close as a family with of course those "too close for comfort" moments; but a few nights ago I think they were going to call it quits. They have been quarreling for a number of months about their son, his wife and three children who live with them. My sister-in-law thinks they should move out on their own so they can learn what it's like to be responsible adults, but my brother insists that they stay. I know he's worried about his grandchildren, and...there are perhaps other underlying problems that exist that are probably too personal to mention. To make a long story short; and from my point of view, both parties are not willing to understand the other...I think my brother should put his wife first as should my nephew with his wife and children. I'm afraid this situation is going to break up a good marriage. - Concerned
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Q. Dear Sista, I don't know where to turn to. I am 21 and my boyfriend and I broke up after being with each other for 3 1/2 years. He told me yesterday that he met someone and that he wanted to break up with me. I don't know what I did to deserve this. I have been nothing but loyal to him for the whole time weve been together. I really need your advice. - Heartbroken
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Q. Dear Sista, I'm having an "in law' problem and hoping for some outside opinion. My father in law needed help with money which we were unable to give. We were unaware that this upset him very much.We always helped in the past with any fa'alavelave that his family had. This was the first time we didn't. At FHE , my father in law spent his time telling his other kids how wonderful they are and thanking them for always supporting him. He did it in a mean and vindictive way purpously ignoring my husband and I. I am hurt and confused on how any parent could do that to a child. I have forgiven him and am trying to get over it. My husband is too hurt by the damage his father has done. Any words to help us out? - Anonymous
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Q. Hello Sista, My family moved to your area in January, but I chose to stay where I am and hope to visit one day. They told me about this website and I think it's really neat especially your town's version of dear Abby. I am emailing because I am concerned about the future so please bear with me. I am 29 years of age and engaged to be married in a couple months in the temple (I do not wish to mention for privacy sake). I've known my fiancée for 2 years and we have a great relationship. Lately however I have felt a distance between us accompanied with excessive arguing. We don't sit and talk like we use to and as much as I am fighting the fact that we're drifting apart, I feel we are. What to do in this situation? - dumbfounded
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Q. Dear Sista, I am not from Hawaii but I stumbled across this website by accident and your column sparked my interest. Pardon my intrusion but I believe I have been led here for a reason, and if I may I would like to seek your advice on a long overdue situation. I have not spoken to my mother in 4½ years or so. We had a falling out with past issues that resulted in us both leaving each other on a sour note. My half sister who lives with my mother called the other day with news that my mother was taken ill with breast cancer and she only has months to live. What should I do? I’m desperate. - Desperate
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Q. Hi Sista. Wanted to thank you for making this only in Laie website. The Laie dear Abby this is a great idea. I don’t have anything to say only that Laie is the most awesomest spot in the world. - Grateful
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Q. Dear Sista, My husband and I just recently married. We are very happy, but know there will be challenges and we want to be ready for them. Any advice you could give would be appreciated. Newly weds in God's country. - NEWLYWEDS
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